Grandparent post

So this post for is really for the grandparents. I guess you can read it if you want even if you aren't a grandparent, but they are the ones who will be really happy to see all these pictures.

When Tom is gone, I tend to schedule a ton of things to do. So there are lots of pictures. Plus, I haven't done just a general update since we returned from Honduras-- so here we go.

Last week, we made only our second trip to the local children's zoo. It was normal, fun and entertaining, special in that we brought Laura (Cody's wife) with us. It was her first trip and the girls loved showing her all their favorite things--carousel included.

Then Friday, we went with Mary Lin and her kids to Crossroads Village in Flint. Mary Lin is the mother of Hadley's best friend, Alexis. Alexis has a younger brother who is six also. They also have a family pass to this old fashioned village, which means we got in free (bonus!). The kids had fun riding the paddle boat (forgot to take picture), exploring the old schoolhouse, the opera house, the stores, and even trying stilts. Both girls were able to take a few steps. They had old, turn-of-the century amusement rides. And that ferris wheel and the carousel flew. It was amazing--perhaps our rigid safety standards have doomed these classic rides to a level just barely above boring. I felt like I was in Mary Poppins, racing my carousel horse. It was great.

Sorry the captions aren't matching up correctly, I goofed and am too tired to fix it. Never pick a left sided layout for pictures if you want to put captions under the photos...it doesn't work.


















































At Adli's lately, strawberries have been $1/pound. I've been buying them and drying them in the food dryer. And after weeks of dangling in a precarious diagonal position, Hadley finally let her dad yank her other front tooth.
She is proud of her giant hole and there no signs yet of the new teeth.






























































Then today, betting against the rain clouds, we drove up to Midland and went to the Dow Gardens. The kids had fun. They even had some good lessons on reading a map as the area is huge. As you can see, creating large bubbles was serious business. The picture on the left here is the middle of the yew maze.








Ok, the swimming pictures are from July. The girls took lessons, like they always do in summer. It was so relaxing to have them both in lessons at the same time. Perhaps because of the economy, the classes were extra small this year, which I loved. Hadley progressed greatly in stroke development and can almost do the butterfly now. She's working on learning to dive. I don't help much because I laugh so hard at her belly flops. Kassy conquered her fear of jumping in and can now jump, without hesitation off the diving board and doggie paddle for a little ways. She was trooper out there, waiting in line for the diving board, with trembling lip, trying not to cry and shaking as she walked the plank. But by the forth lesson she did it. I was so proud.

And then there are pictures of friends. First the Bierbrauers. Jason, the dad, is a friend of Tom's from high school. They were here off and on for five days while they went back and forth to a wedding in Ann Arbor. They have five kids. It was nutty, but exciting here. Beneath that is a picture of the girls with my great aunt Mariel and uncle Phil. They were also in town because of a Michigan wedding. It had been several years since we had seen them so it was a good chance to catch up. And finally, the girls with two, of the four Drost kids. The Drosts are our good friends in Des Moines. We stayed with them for Cody's wedding. Again, nutty, but fun. I love chances to "live" with other families. You get to see how they interact, discipline, structure their life. It always inspires me to keep working hard at being a parent. And I think when you stay together for a few days, you see more reality than a quick 2-4 hour visit. I definitely recommend it.

Demon bugs

I remember how comfortable it felt owning our first house in Des Moines. It was a fixer-upper cosmetically. The major work of roofing, siding, furnace, etc. had been done by the previous owner. Only, that owner, stopped making payments and we were able to get a deal when we purchased the half fixed-up house. Fixing up the house in a quick time frame was stressful, but with a grant from the neighborhood revitalization program, easily affordable. At any point after we moved in we knew we could sell our house for twice what we paid. It was a secure feeling.

We knew when choose to buy a house in this town that it was risky. But we liked the idea of living in a town with big needs and prices were good here. Nice house for less money. We'd grown up in a world where real estate increased in value and figured the worse case scenario was that we would never make any money on our house. We couldn't fathom a world where housing prices could drop lower than they already were in this town.

You already know that our little worldview popped a long time ago. Housing prices did fall, just a few short months after we bought our home. And then they dropped.And dropped and dropped some more. Our house has lost a full 35% of its value. And while the rest of the country cautiously hopes the housing market will begin to climb again, without new employers, most people in this area skip those articles. I'd come to terms with the fact that my house was like a car--a depreciating asset. Never mind that we have replaced the roof, and the flat roof on the addition, the furnace, the water heater, the garage roof, the AC, the washing machine and garbage disposal. Never mind that we know the stove, dishwasher and fridge are on their last legs. We like our house and if, for some unknown reason, God called us out of this place. I guess it would be his job to get us out this house without a financial mess. You know, stand on the Rock. Do not worry about the things the world worries about.

Apparently God thought we could use a bit more faith stretching. We haven't been perfected enough (painfully true) so God sent a new trial--and as it true of most trials, I would prefer not to go through it. Or maybe this is spiritual warfare and little demons (literally they are little demons) are trying to destroy our faith. Either way, it's time once again to try and defeat the panic that is slowly raising in me.




Do you know what these are? Not flying ants. Think mud tunnels; think wood eaters; think "must disclose on a seller's statement." Think termites. Several pest control people I called, like the realtor that showed us the house, told us there weren't termites in the area. The ones in the know, said they had never heard of termites in this part of the city. Never. One of the guys who came to give me an estimate said I should play the lottery, because the odds of winning were as good as my odds of getting termites. Ha ha.

I was handling the news ok, until Tom left town and I got to usher four different companies through my house as they placed bids for treatments. And then today, one man actually crawled through the terrifying crawl space and said there were giant mud tunnels, about 6 inches wide over on the southeast wall. Ok, so truthfully, I've just been going on the assumption that we found the termites early and that there was no damage because the tunnels has been so small. Giant mud tunnel destroyed my assumption. And like I said, Tom is gone. Totally gone to the remote, unreachable wilderness of the Boundary Waters, hundreds of uninhabited lakes between Minnesota and Canada. When something goes wrong in the house, he frets and analyzes all possible scenarios so much that I don't have to.

So, it's time now to pull out a stronger faith, one that thrives without the security of a house that is a good investment and that doesn't depend on circumstances. That's the kind I like to think I have. I guess it's time to find out.
In the midst of this scenario, do you know what is going through my head?..a silly, version of a classic hymn that makes me laugh.

"On Christ the solid rock I stand, all other ground is crumbling wood."

Fruit

I was frustrated with my girls when we returned from Honduras. Especially with my Hadley, who has always loved all material objects including papers with unfinished scribbles, way too much. I've told her we should love God and people more than we love things, but the old writing rule of show, don't tell is true in life sometimes too. I had hoped Honduras, with its joyful, toyless hours, would teach her these deeper truths (they had toys, but mostly toddler toys). But she is seven, perhaps I was expecting too much.

Upon our return to the States, Great Grandma gave each girl a crisp $10 and, then, inexplicably, her neighbor that we've never met did too. Suddenly the girls had $20. I give the girls an allowance and teach them principles like save some and give some, but with gift money I usually let them decide what to do. I watch, breathless, hoping the carefully taught principles with be voluntarily applied. Kassy is always eager to please and would happily give away or save all her money. Or she wants to do what Hadley does. Hadley is greedy, anxious to acquire some new treasure, which will be forgotten in a few short days. And so, upon return to Michigan, Hadley began her daily beg for a trip to Toys'R Us.

I couldn't help myself, neither could Tom. We lectured and reminded about Honduras, imploring her to see the bigger picture. But she didn't care. She spent all $20 on a pack'n play for her baby doll. I even suggested we could find such a treasure at a garage sale for $5 or less. Still, she insisted, and though my heart sank, I had given my word she could spend the money as she wished and I let her buy the toy. Two weeks later, it creates spots of pink light on the carpet on the sun shines through it.

My expectations of what Honduras could change in my 7-year-old were too high though I might never know what the effects really were. Then yesterday, Tom announced to the girls that it was time for a toy clean-out. We usually do these twice a year--once at Christmas and once at birthdays. We declare that each child must get rid of 5-10 toys before new treasures arrive. If Hadley is home, it is a miserable event. Kassy will pick her ten things and then Hadley will start crying that Kassy is getting rid of some toy she personally loves. Usually the toys end up being plastic junk prizes from a school fair or well-meaning community events.

The girls heard daddy's announcement and ran upstairs--avoiding the declaration? Fifteen minutes later they came down, arms full of twenty-three stuffed animals!(Embarrassingly there are still over 50 stuffed animals in this house, have you ever counted yours? I think stuffed animals breed, like rabbits). Inexplicably they tackled the playroom next, getting rid of toys and puzzles they don't use, talking to each other kindly and logically. I held my tongue as they chose to get rid of some my favorite toys, but I would not interrupt this phenomenon with my sentimentality.

So, maybe they did learn a few things. We've decided to have a little toy sale. We will donate the profits, which will be small, to our friends in Honduras. I'll sell their old clothes too. And I was wondering, if any of your kids would like to get rid of toys too, and help us raise money for the orphanage?

Finished treehouse

Welcome to our treehouse. The siding is on (but still needs to washed), it's insulated, has electricity, and the oops section of the hardware store provided some cheap paint ($5 a gallon). Tom even found an ingenious way to make those beds fold down against the wall. Sure, it's overdone and sometimes I wondered if my husband would ever stop working on it. He was obsessed with his creation. But really, how can I complain about a man who spends his free time building a dream treehouse and doing it responsibly? I'm so thankful he isn't off playing video games or racing cars. Seventy-80% of that thing is salvaged building material or donations of leftovers from friend's work projects (Amanda's wood for the door, Brian's insulation from remodeling his basement, the neighbor's torn down garage). We tried to find ways to make the girls contribute---they bought the paint (and did some painting)and the bean bags, chair and rug. Teaching them to shop at garage sales and only buy furnishings for their treehouse was a good lesson in self discipline. Sometimes as we browsed they would hiss, "Mooooommmm, we aren't looking for _________." Now, if I could only convince Tom to make the inside of our house look this good with new coats of paint...

But if you are ever in the neighborhood, come check it out (Chris, we could use the front porch of the house or of the treehouse!). And if you know anyone with a slide we could have, we would be grateful.

Honduras, last part, I think.

There are untold stories from Honduras that I intended to write about: like the panic of being attacked for the craft at the VBS in the village or the tarantula that Tom saw, the land crab bigger than my hand with an egg sack or the volunteer couple who acted like they were at a resort. There are stories but as days deepen the distance mostly I don't remember the individual stories just the people, their hearts and God's amazing hand in it all. And hour after hour I as I go through my day I wonder, what are they doing, how are they, what can I send them to help bear the load?

Before we left, there were times I thought maybe we were crazy. Who finds an orphanage in an impoverished country on the Internet, one that isn't connected to any organization, and takes their two young children with them for two weeks to visit? Apparently we do.

I can't say that we had heard God's call to this specific place or that we knew for certain we should go. We just had a despeartion to expose our kids to something other than the materialism of America and a hope that we could find a ministry with which we could partner for years to come. Sometimes we allowed ourselves to also dream we'd find a place of love, strong friendships, a ministry not steeped in fundraising, paperwork and unnecessary expenses.

And so Tom found Roc minstries on the Internet, the banner name of Casa Cielo (the orphanage) and Casa Compassion ( the ministry to unwed mothers). We read about them, wrote back and forth and decided to go. I never doubted our decision, except when people would look at me quizzically and say, “What about...?” I never had an answer. Usually I hadn't thought of that possible problem. God's word says that pure and undefiled religion is to care for orphans and widows. Was I being naive or obedient? I wasn't sure but I felt at peace.

I never expected the trip to be flawless. I expected illness, travel problems, potential discomfort with the way the orphanage was run. I knew God never promises that things will go smoothly, for smooth doesn't require much faith. But the trip was flawless: no illness, no travel problems, and directors who saught the Lord and had more love, energy, and patience that I thought possible. We walked into a family that reminded me of sitting on the couch at my Grandma's—deeply familiar from years of napping and reading stories and sitting on relative's laps. Granted, there was the minor issue of the political coup, but that was just a test. “Do you trust me? In this safe and inspiring environment, do you trust me?” God was asking. Again, it was just media, an outside influence, that would send me into moments of doubt. Otherwise, I stood in awe at how perfectly Casa Cielo matched all our hopes, in awe that God allowed us to visit such a place, regardless of the political timing.

And now here I am in America again. In my comfortable, safe home. An easy life not full of much stretching. While there I saw with clarity the fear that most of us soak in. As a young mom I fretted until I was almost sick if someone wanted to move my car seat. What if they didn't properly install it? I researched vaccines excessively, trying to decipher the truth about their safety. I've spent countless hours analyzing what I exposed my kids to, if I was giving them the right opportunities. Are we too busy? Not busy enough? Am I raising them to know about holiness? I'd observe other mothers and feel guilty if they did more crafts than me or if their kids knew more scripture verses.

But in Honduras, it became clear that the thing to think about was obedience to God, not the rules of proper mothering. Those dear people didn't have time to research how high a fever could get before giving Tylenol. They didn't have money to make sure every meal was balanced with fruit and veggies, a lean protein, and whole grains (a habit the torments me sometimes) They couldn't spend fifteen minutes praying and cuddling with each kid every night and didn't have time to worry if this lack of time was effecting their children negatively. They were obeying God: taking in orphans, selflessly laying down their life from sunup to sundown and often in the middle of night, and raising these kids as their own with love and discipline. And those kids clearly knew they were loved. Giving them every opportunity in American wouldn't make their lives any better.

God is so much bigger than those little decisions. He can keep you healthy if you eat junk and allow you to be sickly if you eat perfectly. He can keep a child safe in an improperly installed car seat, or not. Rest in the fact that He is in control(did I mention we would drive around with 15 kids in an SUV with no car seats--I didn't even worry!). God looks at our heart, and if that heart is obedient, that person can be used to love the world.

My prayer is that my family (mostly me) will stop worrying about the details and focus on obedience. And like the Jones, who are making a giant impact on so may little lives, be used by God. I hope we can learn to lay down our lives and not be drawn into the American dream which at its core is all about self. I want to travel the road of obedience.

Pictures from the top: teaching Jose to use the computer, Tom and Xiomara who is blind, Yeseyli, Karen in a hamock (which are everywhere), Del and Jeanie (the oldest daughter and her husband), Javier during lunch, Marlon in the pool, Henry and Ethelyn who are twins.

The Easy Pace of Summer

Except for Tom, who always stretches unpacking into a week long event that tries my patience, we are unpacked. We've had a few extra bowel movements but appear to have escaped Honduras without trouble from the government or the parasites. I've wrestled most of the tomatoes back into their cages and done a lot of trimming. It's amazing how much a garden can grow in 18 days. The easy pace of summer has arrived for the first time here. Trip preparations prevented my relaxation in the first few weeks. For the first time since grad school Tom took a session off from teaching so while it may be Thursday at your house I am quite sure we are stuck in a happy cycle of Saturdays and Sundays. I still have more stories to tell but for now I am sitting here, relaxing, maybe tomorrow. I moved this text from the end of the post to the beginning and now can't get rid of the underlining. Sorry. Here are a few pictures for you. This picture is for mom, who always wants a family picture. Tom agreed happily, which is rare. I should zoom in, but for now this is what I have. It's at Cody and Laura's wedding. And below, the happy couple exits to the waiting car while being pelted with Frisbees (the wedding favor so they kind of asked for it).

Above is my veggie garden; it isn't a big thing but I swear these plants all grew close to an inch a day while I gone. This picture is AFTER much trimming. And below, I've squeezed quite a few blooms into the foot of dirt I have on the valuable south side. I guess we all make do with what we have.

Home..almost

We are back. Safe and sound. No problems. No trouble. In retrospect, had we been off line and away from radio, we never would have known there was a problem. We might have wondered why the bus and the plane were so empty, but that's all. Five-hour lay overs are long. 

Our departure day at the orphanage was not without fanfare. The thoughtful Jones family brought in the matriarch of the village to cook her famous fish and fish soup for us. And INFA, the child protection service agency in Honduras showed up for a surprise inspection at the same time that Mama and Papa had just returned from town and a visit to a different INFA office to pick up a new addition to the family. They received the call that morning and said, "yes." And just like that there are 20 kids there now (there were 15 when we got there--four belong to the single women who is living in the pool shed and working there). The new baby is a 13-month- old named David. He was born to a mentally ill woman who was raped. She was deemed an unfit parent by INFA and now there is a new child in the Jones family. Any of us would be overwhelmed. After all, it takes 1-2 weeks just to de-lice and de-parasite new kids. But the Jones family, in their tiny, crowded space are grateful. Papa Jones greeted the new baby by taking him in his big arms, introducing himself and Mama and saying, " I love you. We both love you. If you stop crying you can drive the truck." David fell asleep in his arms in minutes. May the rest of his adjustment be as easy.

There was never a dull moment there. There are always what we would call little emergencies that would make us dizzy and stressed, but they tackle them one at a time, trusting God all the way. We weren't really ready to come home. They need help so much. And it's cold here. I had to wear a sweatshirt in the airport and planes--that darn AC is frigid! 

I have more to tell, but I'll be busy for the next few days and off line. It's off to Des Moines, and Cody, if you read this, it'd have to be someone really important to make me travel further from home and garden at this point. And Grandma, I miss you. I'm sorry it won't work to connect. 

Heading for the States

I'm tired. I'm sweating. It was a busy day that started with a swim in the ocean (tough life, I know) . And while I want to go home, I can't imagine it. If I stayed any longer those kids would really get engraved in my heart and leaving would make my sob. I am so glad we came. So thankful for the opportunity to serve, for my girls to broaden their world view and have the opportunity for help others. Don't think that we worked that hard though. I haven't had to cook a meal, clean a dish, or do laundry here (Tom did the laundry). Hondurans don't have a schedule dictated by the clock and there's plenty of opportunity to relax each day (or blog!). After the first few days I do think we've managed to be helpful though. I have more stories to tell and more thoughts to share but that will have to wait. Tomorrow we board the bus at 2:00, a night at the hotel in San Pedro and then up at 4:30 am for our 7 am flight. The former President of Honduras is, ironically, in the States with Hilary. So for a few days anyway, things appear calm. I'll post a quick one when we get to Chicago before we head to Des Moines for Cody's wedding.

*Hi Mary Lin! So glad Cody found you.

I don't even look up the news anymore. I pick up bits and pieces around the table during meals but mostly I expect we won't know if we can leave until the day arrives. And it is quickly approaching. This morning the table talk was that all airports had been closed due to rioting except San Pedro and only Continental was flying out. At lunch, I heard all airports were closed, American reporters were missing, and people died during riots yesterday. I have no idea what the truth is. I just have moments of panic, where I realize I am more attached to my plans of departure than I should be. Moments when I wonder about our safety. Such moments feel overwhelming, but I don't regret coming. I imagine myself to be a rubber band, stretching to some unknown point as God deepens my faith, and maybe that of those who love us.

Despite the unexpected national chaos of this country, I marvel at the little things that are hard, but not really when looked at in a broader perspective. This afternoon, I baked six cakes. Tomorrow we go to the village to do a one day vacation Bible school for the kids and cake is the treat. I've never baked a cake before without the normal conveniences---a rubber spatula, a timer, non-stick cooking spray. And I've never baked a cake before with sweat running down my face. But baking a cake here is easy, it's possible because we have a good oven. And what's a little sweat for a bunch of kids who might get cake once a year? Mama said the kids will all look alike to us, so once they get their cake, they have to leave otherwise they keep coming back for more and we won't know who eaten and who hasn't.

Tom and some of the other men around here are currently at the village doing pick up soccer with the kids. Tomorrow they will do it again, right before the VBS. That's all the advertising that will be needed because word of mouth is quick and efficient. I suspect the whole village is the size of my neighborhood with about ten times the number of residents. I haven't mentioned Tom much...he's been building with Chris: storage closets, a work bench, shelves, fixing kitchen cabinets that were falling off the wall, etc.

And earthquakes....there are at least two tremors a week here. I felt one this morning. It put cracks in the wall of the house where the orphans live. Until May, there weren't tremors here.

And a fun story to end for the day: So all the kids are five an under. Papa decided one day it was time to potty train the kids. He trained eight of them at once. First they went to the bathroom every hour eventually they went to every two hours, then three. It took less than a week. Impressive, huh?

A few histories

I don’t know what information to give as it changes by the hour. This morning we thought all international flights had been cancelled. And certainly it is impossible to fly out of the capital city. But the US Embassy sent an email saying Continental has not yet canceled flights out of San Pedro. American and Delta have. The former President, Zelaya, did try to return today. I think, though info is still coming in, that he was turned away the first time. And right now as I write, he is trying to land in the capital city but there are military obstacles on the runway. There is a group of Zelaya supporters outside the airport throwing things at the police. But we are waiting. We won’t know if we can fly out until the last minute. Pam and Chris had planned to stay a few extra days to do a canopy tour of the rain forest. So they are not supposed to be leaving with us. Meanwhile, we are still safe. The police checkpoints on the road to La Ceiba which are always there, used to regularly pull over the Jones family because they were American. They check registrations and license, etc. They must be instructed to look for something else because they always let us by without inspection and Jeanie said it used to be 99.9% of the time they would get pulled over for inspection.

So I thought I would share some of the histories of the kids who live here. They’ve told me the stories but in bits and pieces so I might mix up a few details. There is Xiomara, an 18-month old, Her young mother tried to abort her at five months, but failed. Xiomara survived, was born in a hospital and the mother ran away before any birth certificate could be issued. The Honduras agency that protects children, contacted the Jones and they added Xiomara to their family. She is blind because she wasn’t in the womb long enough for all the right nerves to connect. She is weak and not yet crawling, though they had a mini party when she started saying Mama and Papa.

There is Karen, a lovely 3- year-old with a charming smile.. When the orphanage was in the Valley of Angels in the mountains, her mother knocked on the door and handed Karen to Mama and Papa. She was 9-months old. She was a young mother with a free lifestlye. She’s had five kids and given away all but the boy. Of all the kids, Karen had the toughest time adjusting to the orphanage. She screamed constantly for almost 6 months. Then she turned mean and scared all the other kids. She is doing better now and I never would have guessed her history. Occasionally Mama and Papa have to take Karen to visitation with her mom. The last visit was tough for Karen and made her angry and mean for a time—her mom came with another baby.

There is Yeseyli. She is about 18-months old too. The Jones heard about an area in the mountains where abuse and rape were common. They tried to travel there but it involved a 4-hour car trip and then a 12-hour horse back ride. Mama wasn’t physically able to make the trip and Papa’s Spanish was good enough so they put out word that if anyone needed help, contact them. Months later, a young teenage mother contacted them. She begged them to come get her before the 60-year-old man who had raped her, killed the baby. Somehow, they connected and Yeseyli joined the family. She often wakes in the morning singing the words Pa-pa pa-pa-pa followed by a second verse of Da-da-da-da.

I am so thankful these kids have a loving home now.

The village and a fiesta

Politically things seem quiet. When we drove into town yesterday there was a crowd of peaceful demonstrators supporting the VP and opposing the former President. A group of three volunteers arrived here yesterday. They flew into San Pedro and took the bus to La Ceiba, without any trouble. The former President was supposed to return today but has again postponed until Sunday. Our hope is that we won’t need to change any plans..just take the bus to San Pedro on Wednesday.

Yesterday, Maria (aka Mama Jones) took Pam and I to the village of Corozal. It is a place of poverty. Mama and others in her famkly have been ministering here for years. She works with the young, single moms. Most of the women and men there don’t work. There isn’t any work to be had and many of those who could work have been taught to be lazy so they are poor workers. Men and women often do not marry. They co-habitate, have babies and then the man leaves for some other women. One the girls I met yesterday had four babies: 4 1/2, 3, 1 1/2, and 5 months. She is 19-years-old. Mama brought her back to the orphanage so she could join in the fiesta we were having for Marlon’s 5^th birthday. She came, but brought nothing—no diapers, no milk for the baby, no snacks. She didn’t have anything to bring. Many of the houses in the village are cement, but many are mud and stick with cement floors. They are two room huts with old plastic lawn chairs for furniture and camping stoves for cooking. Most of the huts are home to 10-12 people. They ask Marie if she knows anyone who will build them a cement house since the recent earthquakes scare them. She tells them to keep praying that a church will come and build. Marie and her family minister to the single moms and their kids—providing clothing, diapers simple medicines like Tylenol or diaper rash cream, and sharing about Christ in all ways. They try to teach these women about the consequences of sleeping with so many men who are not committed to raising a family. They try to teach the women to speak to their Bibles, to stimulate them. The whole village knows Marie and ask about her children. They ask when the next Bible study will be and they peered curiously at my red-headed children, wondering who they belonged to since neither Pam nor I have red hair. Hadley, able to make friends at the drop of dime, stood back cautiously for a time, taking it all in. But with a little nudge she quickly engaged in a game of keep away with some boys. Kassy clung to my leg most of the time, unsure and unwilling to leave the safety of my shadow. I pray that the images from that day will stick in their minds.

As I mentioned, yesterday was Marlon’s 5^th birthday. Thanks to donations from thoughtful people, each child receives a stuffed animal from Build-a-Bear workshop and a party with a cake and piñata. A mother of a volunteer sends themed bags of party goods for birthdays. For this party, the cake, piñata, napkins, cups, plates, table cloth were all from Disney’s Cars movie. The party included dancing, hitting the piñata, lots of candy and cake. Fun was had by all. I love how this ministry doesn’t view itself as an institution. It’s a family, a generous family. They plan each birthday with as much care and detail as I do a party for my girls—except the guest list is always larger and there is a a lovely simplicity in receiving only one gift. Tom and Del (the son-in-law) and my girls played soccer with some of the boys to end the party.

Feliz Cumpleanos Marlon!

Pictures from Honduras

The house where we stay along with other volunteers, where everyone eats, and where school takes place.

Here you go Amanda, me in the Parrot aviary. I visit everyday though none of the birds are super sweet. I can manhandle a few of them.
Pam, my mother-in-law, holding Nelly who had come down with a fever. This family handles fever and illness with as much fanfare as I do a scratch. I guess when you have seventeen+ kids, fever spreads like wildfire and is far preferable to diarrhea.
We took the kids to the shoe store on Wednesday. It was their first time ever picking out their own shoes and one of their first times on carpet. It was chaotic but fun. I am amazed at the prices here. Some of them are so similar to US prices, but people here make about $5 a day.
Michelle liked to measure shoe sizes.
Tom helps Marlon try on a pair of shoes.

Yesterday during school time the kids finger painted. The day before Pam and I and Jeannie (the oldest daughter) cut out the kids' names and shapes and pasted them on the paper. We will laminate them and use them for placemats. This is Jefferson, a very unusual name for a Honduran I would guess.

Thursday

The embassy emailed us (not personally) and said we should try not to fly out of San Pedro as it is not safe. They suggested La Ceiba. So we called the airlines, knowing there might be a lot of fees. To change our flights to La Ceiba will cost thousands of dollars---but Continental is currently reviewing their policy in Hoduras and is considering allowing people whose flights fall within a certain window to make one city of departure change or one date change for free. The former President has moved his retun to Saturday and some of the international community, including Obama, are backing off from supporting him. But I suspect this was all the work of Chavez to begin with. So we wait. Meanwhile, we got word tonight that the bus is running between La Ceiba and San Pedro again and some brave friends are flying into San Pedro tomorrow to come and help Mama and Papa, so they will know more when they get here.

This morning was the first time I woke up a bit panicked. I had to bring it in check and remember what I know about God being in control. That lesson came through so loudly in my study the last two years of the OT, I guess God wants me to walk in it. Because I know my parents and grandma will wonder---I have plenty of medicine and insulin to get past the end of July!

Some daily life details if you are interested. Kassy and I started the morning with a shell walk, and wanted to swim, but the wind is high today so the ocean is wild. Oh and those earthquakes, tremors have been felt here, but never by me.

Because the sun sets about 7:30 pm and rises about 4:30 am, we tend to wake up early 5 am or so. We go to bed early, for us, 10 pm at the latest. We shower every night. We have to. Every day we are a sticky mess of sweat, bug spray and sun block. We share a bathroom with Pam and Chris (my in-laws). I was so delighted to have working toilets and a private shower--it beats our experience in China with troughs and public showers! We don't have hot or cold water, but believe me we never would take a hot shower if we could. And we can't throw toilet paper down the toilet, which is a very hard habit to break. We brush our teeth with bottled water. And also drink only bottled water. The food has been delicious--lots of beans and tortillas. Everyday we have some kind of fresh juice: watermelon, mango, pineapple, some I've never heard of. The food is prepared by tias, what they call the local women who work here when there are extra volunteers.

The girls are loving having dogs, a cat, and parrots as pets. They've caught salamanders, chased the giant toads that come out at night, and enjoy the geckos running up and down the walls (yes in the house) at night.

Despite the turmoil in the seemingly far away land of the capital city, we love it here. We love the simplicity of life. We love the depend -on- the -Lord lifestyle. We love these people who simply love the children, depend on the Lord to survive, and reach out to all the people around them. If someone knocks on the gate and wants work, they provide some if they can. If someone needs clothes or food, they share as they can. If someone is hanging out by the old railroad tracks aimlessly, they share Christ. There is so much to do but the pace is relaxed, the expectation is that plan B will usually be needed and that's okay.

More next time....Amanda, I tried to upload more pictures, but the connection is too slow. After ten minutes on one photo, I gave up.

Wednesday update

Kassy was reading to Maria, most of the kids are bilingual.
The whole group, minus the babies.
Kassy tries the fresh coconut meat and water. Hadley picked this coconut from the ground in the front yard. But don't stand underneath the coconut tree!
Above: The "backyard"

Uploading is slow so I'll try to do more later.

The picture at the top of the blog is "front" yard.

Thanks for your prayers everyone. I know the situation is alarming but our daily lives are wonderful, if sweaty. We are almost used to the temperatures; we have all pooped; no intestinal issues; and we sleep well. The girls keep saying, "They are so lucky. They live in Honduras."

At this point, the embassy has not advised Americans to leave. And even if they do today, I am not sure how we would do it. There are no buses running between cities. And while the area we are in has no signs of unrest, San Pedro, the town we would probably fly out of does. Tomorrow is the big day. The former President says he will return tomorrow to claim his position. He will be backed by the US, and the UN in word and probably Chavez’s army (this is speculation overheard at the dinner table). The VP, the military, and the congress here all say they will arrest the former President if he returns. So tomorrow is the big day. I can’t imagine a scenario where we would out of the country by then. And I know many of you are worried, but I assure you we are currently safe and the peace of God has surrounded our hearts and we do not worry all day. We listen to the news and wonder what God will do. We hope to stay put and not leave not for a time, as my friend Cheryl advised in her comment yesterday. (Thanks for the hints Cheryl!) Regardless, we feel privileged to have come and been part of this ministry for any length of time. God is strengthening our faith and not just due to the political conflict.

Today we will take the orphans into town to the shoe store. The church that Pam and Chris attend collected money for this purpose. This will be the first time the kids have ever been to a shoe store and the first time they have picked their own shoes that they like. It should be exciting.

Yesterday we took some of the older kids to a little ranch down the road. The owner has been housing injured, native animals: parrots, exoctic birds of all kinds, monkeys, a servel, a crocodile. Many of them were abused and rather crazy. It’s like a zoo but there are no barriers between the cages and the kids so we had to do lots of warnings to stand back. One of the monkeys actually sacred me he seemed so agressibe. Kass stopped on a fire ant hill for the second time that day. She started screaming and some of the orphans, probably knowing her pain, rushed over and started brushing them off. It was sweet, but Kass was terrified and wouldn’t walk on the ground for 20 minutes. When I made her it was with constant sniffles. Poor baby! Despite the fire ants it was a fun outing . The girls are slowly getting to know the kids.

More later.